When we first set off, now 15-months ago, we had very clear motivations for pausing our busy city lives and stealing away with our kids. The very first, the inspiration for the naming of this blog, was to slow down our lives and devote more time to our children. We wanted to really be present with them and to soak up the precious and fleeting moments of their childhoods, when family is the centre of their universe and life can be enjoyed for its most simple qualities.
We were also feeding our wanderlust. We’ve always loved travel and we wanted to experience more of it with our children. We wanted to explore farther reaches of our world, take in new cultures and make new friends. We hoped to find, and I think we achieved, a better understanding of our place in this great big world.
Now, looking back on it all, I think there was another, subconscious motivation: we were seeking inspiration for how to live in the years to come. We had had twelve wonderful years in London, full of adventure and excitement in their own way, but we were at a point where we could quite easily envision what the next 12-years might bring, and the 12 after that. We shared a secret desire to pen a new chapter — could we enjoy living outside of the city, on a farm or in the countryside? Would life be more fulfilling (and simpler) if we lived closer to family? Could we find a small town somewhere in the world with the slower pace of life we desired, but a smidgeon of the big city sophistication we had become so accustomed to?
Over the past year we have visited countries both new and familiar. For the most part, we gave ourselves ample time to experience them, to settle into a routine and to live, in a small way, like the locals lived. We developed a genuine connection to most every place and got a feeling for the town, its people, culture and customs. Granted, you can only learn so much in three weeks, but we experienced enough to wonder, and imagine, what our lives might be liked if we lived there permanently.
Some places captured our hearts more than others. We fell so in love with the pretty Brazilian beach town of Trancoso, for example, that we started looking at real estate and dreaming up ways to start a business and raise a family there. We felt so completely at home and welcome in Uruguay that we could have easily ended the adventure there. It was decidedly different yet wonderfully familiar, even European, and we came to know an inspiring group of expats who had settled in charming towns dotted throughout the small country. We couldn’t stop ourselves from enquiring about schools, property and visas.
We left each country with butterflies of excitement in our stomachs. Had we just discovered our future home? What would our lives be like there? What might we find in the countries still to come? It was all really exhilarating. We felt utterly untethered from our former lives. With each passing week the pressures of school and work and finances melted away into new possibilities. We saw people like us, former big city people, living happily and simply, a world away from it all. By December, it’s fair to say, the prospect of simply re-entering our former lives was growing more and more remote.
It wasn’t until April, however, that we were certain. Could we live in Trancoso, Brazil, La Barra, Uruguay, Pichilemu, Chile or Raglan, New Zealand? Yes, yes, yes and yes…. BUT, we had found somewhere that spoke to our hearts even more. It was Byron Bay, Australia, and we were smitten.
Within one month of exploring beautiful Byron Bay and the towns dotted throughout its hinterlands, we all agreed that this could be our spot. We had quickly and easily made dear friends and found a rhythm and routine that was incredibly natural for our family. We felt an undeniable connection to the natural beauty of the area and were drawn to its infectiously happy residents. Of course there was also the surfing, the sunshine, the good food, the creative community and the bohemian lifestyle that’s always appealed to me. We had fallen in love and could not deny our deep attraction to this place. We quizzed the kids – could you live here? Their answers were always, and unambiguously, ‘yes!’ At the end of our month-long stay, we couldn’t wait to return.
In just a few weeks we’ll be boarding a flight for Australia, stomachs full of butterflies again, with dreams of making a home there. There will be much to do, especially with visas and the logistics of emigrating, but we will be exploring all of the options and are hopeful that Australia may take us in. We’ll look forward to a day when we can really unpack our suitcases and start to build a nest again (to light candles, buy flowers, stock a pantry, hang up children’s art – the simple things we’ve missed). We’re also looking forward to sending the kids back to school, signing them up for activities, and finding a routine for our family again. Michael and I can’t wait to go on dates again, to take yoga classes and to focus on our careers. Of course there will be the challenges, but we’re even looking forward to those!
Thank you, as always, for following along and supporting us on our journey. There is much to come and I am eager to share our experiences along the way. The adventure continues…
Somewhere Slower 
Oh, this is fabulous news and the destination I hoped you might settle on. Wondrous! Exciting! All the most positive adjectives for this move! And Claire Johnson and her delicious tribe will be nearby! Safe flights and hope you are all well and happy. Xx
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Oh wow Courtney – how wonderfully exciting! I’m soo happy for you and your family – Byron Bay seems magical. Best wishes for your relocating adventure. I look forward to hearing how it all goes! Much love x
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Good luck in your new life! We just started on our own round the world trip, and we will be traveling with our two children for the next year. I wonder what changes in our lives this year will bring us, like it did for your family…
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Good luck in your new adventure! X
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What wonderful news & how exciting for the next chapter to be in such a magical place .
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How wonderful! I knew the ponds in the Heath were not going to be good enough for your surfers 😉
All the best in this new adventure, and lots of love from chilli Crouch End xxx
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So pleased you have decided on somewhere to settle, I have loved following your adventures and can’t wait for the next chapter!
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So happy for you. I only discovered your blog quite recently and have really enjoyed hearing about your travels and latest plans. You’ve inspired us to think of taking up our pre-children travels once again, this time with all 4 of us.
Byron Bay is a beautiful spot. Wonderful to follow your dreams… we wish you well.
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Wow so exciting! What a wonderful place to settle. Might I ask what jobs you and your husband are going to have? Am intrigued about the sorts of skills and jobs people need to have in order to be accepted to live in Australia!
Thanks and best of luck!
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That’s so wonderful to read! I had the feeling it would be Australia. It was the way you talked about it, the pictures you showed from there. So happy to see you adventure continue. x
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That’s sooo wonderful!! Great news. Best of luck ×
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I so called it! I knew from the second you decided to spend the (rest of your month in Australia?) in Bryon Bay that that might be where you decided to eventually settle again. It has been amazing watching and learning from you and your family for the past year-ish, lol, and as a twenty year old you have given me so many ideas for what I want to do with my future. Thank you for being the inspiration we all needed, and I can’t wait to see what comes next 🙂
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This is so inspiring! My family is in Washington, DC and my husbands is all in Buenos Aires. We’ve settled for the country life in Virginia to be closer to my family. We have dreams of moving to the west coast, but can’t bring ourselves to be too far from family. I feel torn. You seem like you have good familial support. I’d love to hear how you made the decision not too stay in Washington.
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What a wonderful news! So after 12 years in London and all five London babies you’re moving to the other sode of the world!! One day you might probably go to Bali and I promise you will love it there. (Another Claire Johnston’s home.) Hope your family will be settling down really soon. Xx
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What an exciting turn of events! I’m so glad we get to keep following along with your new adventure on your wonderful blog. Lots of luck!
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The moment you announced you wouldn’t go back to your old life I was certain you would go to Byron Bay. You spoke (or rather wrote) so fondly of this place. I wish you the best of luck with starting your new life and settling in!
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Finding somewhere that you connect with is very special. It is a wonderful place and, speaking as a Brit, the sunshine is oh so appealing. Wishing you all lots of happy times ahead in your new corner of the world.
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What a wonderful news! So after 12 years in London and all five London babies you’re moving to the other side of the world!! One day you might probably go to Bali and I promise you will love it there. (Another Claire Johnston’s home.) The island really has its own charm. Hope your family will be settling down really soon. Xx
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I think anyone who has followed your journey will not be surprised by you decision, your posts showed how well you settled into the pace of life in Australia. Best of luck to you and team Adamo. I look forward to you sharing your next chapter.
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How wonderful! Wishing you the best of luck! ♥ We are planning something similar, looking forward how you settle in and see all the new adventures nsown under. Xx
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Just so happy for you! I have followed you for many years, but not one to comment as I don’t actually know you. I live in the UK with my family, and we travel as work and expense allow. But pre marriage and children I travelled and spent a long time in Australia…. And many of my friends have now settled there. I can totally and utterly relate to how you feel about Byron Bay, it is so special and holds many happy memories for me too, of surfing, making new friends and just enjoying a slower pace of life. I wish you and your family every happiness as you embark on this next EXCITING chapter in your life!!! I’m excited for you!! (Our next trip to Australia is planned for about three years…once our three week old has grown a little and we have had a little more sleep!) 😆
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Courtney, I have absolutely loved following your travelling adventures over the last year. I always wondered where you would end up and wasn’t surprised it didn’t end up being in London. Being Australian, I followed your adventures there extra closely and wondered if that might end up being your new home, especially as it was obvious that the surfing bug had bitten your boys hard!
I’m so excited to continue to follow your journey, especially with a new little Aussie baby on the way. 🎈🎈🎈 Congratulations, on all fronts. So happy for your beautiful (and so suntanned) family. ❤️❤️
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Wow. I am so amazed by how you can translate all these thoughts and hopes and dreams into a beautiful story- and it all sounds so logical and happy! We have visited Australia only once but were (and are) as smitten as you guys. Wishing you nothing but happiness and wonderful new beginnings with your wonderful family!
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Congratulations! Such wonderful news. ✨ Australia seems to have it all (mountains, ocean, amazing arts and craft scene, lots of families, etc.) and I’m excited to watch your family’s next chapter unfold! Sending love to you all as you transition into your new normal! 💛💛💛
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Warmest congratulations on your wonderful adventure! I’m definitely jealous. We lived in Perth for four years when our girls were small, and every day was a gift to our family. Wishing you will enjoy the same feelings as you begin your new chapter!
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Oh my goodness, I had a huge pang of jealousy & longing reading this! I’m so ready to return home after 13 years living away from my hometown of Perth. So happy for you! I can’t wait to return home one day.
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Sounds magical. Lucky lucky children. Best wishes for everything. X
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I knew it! It was evident from the way you wrote so lovingly about Byron Bay that you could see yourselves living there. Good luck and keep us posted!
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You are such an inspiration…Thanks. All the best for your adventure.
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congratulation on choosing such an amazing place to settle down with your family! i loved reading about your adventures and am grateful for your inspiration! xxx
can i just ask a question, how you are doing with the visa in australia?
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Ah, I was hoping this for you. Though we don’t know one another, I remember thinking to myself, “They seem so happily at home there.” every time you posted a photo from your visit to Byron Bay. Best wishes on your move and the period of transition. 😘😘
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It was a real pleasure to read your post Courtney! I am so excited for you and your family, Byron Bay sounds like the ideal place for you all! All the best for the next chapter in your life.xxx
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I can’t wait to follow along.
If I had to have guessed where you’d end up after following your journey it would have been Byron Bay. It seemed so fitting for you all even through Instagram. Best of luck x
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Hi Adamos!!!
So sorry I missed you on your LA stop! Jorgey sent me the photo of you all and said you had a grand time together.
Byron Bay is a superb choice. My best friend, Melissa, lives in Brisbane, which is not too too far, and it is one of her favorite places. I’ll send you her info. She has nephews that are similar ages to the kids, so it would be great for you all to meet.
I’m currently in Positano and everyone here sends you love.
Know that you are all in my heart and I am behind you 100%! Tanti baci e abbracci!!!
Susan
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So excited for you all!!!!! Much love from Lisa Dan and the gang xxxxxxxx
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Never read something SO heartwarming and content in a long time. I wish all the good for this to come.
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So happy for you and your family Courtney. Such a big decision, but after living far from family for 12 years already, you already know it well. And your love for this area sounds absolutely amazing. I can’t wait to visit you! I must see this magical place! Have a wonderful time and safe travels! xx
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Congrats! I’ve loved reading this blog this year and cannot wait to read more adventures from Byron Bay!
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Your dear family! I have followed you since reading about your move from London all those months ago! I am so thrilled to hear that you’re heading back to Byron Bay! I cannot think of a better place for you and your lovely family to settle and grow! I wish you all the lucky in the world. Lots of love Caroline xxxx
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Oh Courtney you should write a book, your beyond inspiring. The next chapter of your lives in Austrialia, how fabulous. Wishing you so much luck and happiness on your new journey xxx
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That’s amazing news! I’ve loved following along your journey. We’ve recently moved from Brisbane to the Sunshine Coast, so I understand the appeal of living close to the beach. It really is the best lifestyle for raising kids. All the best for your onward journey and settling into Australian life, I’m sure it will suit you and your family xx
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Will you post more about this new step? I’m sure a lot of families (like mine) are trying to make the move also but don’t know how to do it, where to start, etc…
Please do so. Tell us more.
I’ve done the move (to Au also) by myself once, but now with a family I don’t know how to do it, honestly.
Anyways, all the luck to y’all!
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Wonderful. I love Byron Bay and Bangalow!
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I began following your family and their adventures when you first set out and was amazed and even envious. What an amazing opportunity for your children to experience life, different people, cultures and foods. As you settle into a new home and routines your children will always have that appreciation that home is not just a building full of possessions but rather, home is being among family and friends.
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Good luck Courtney, all the best to you and your beautiful family. As always I can’t wait to read everything you put down x
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really wonderful news and wish you all the best for a wonderful start into your new home sweet home…for sure you will have a lot of lovley people who will support you in this next exciting chapter of life…have a magical new beginning…much love…
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I’ve been following your travelling adventures for some time now, and seeing the heart and enthusiasm of your past Byron Bay posts, I had a feeling you’d end up there. Congratulations on such a wonderfully exciting new chapter. Xx
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really wonderful news and wish you all the best for a wonderful start into your new home sweet home…for sure you will have a lot of lovley people who will support you in this next exciting chapter of life…have a magical new beginning…much love…
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At the earliest posts about Byron Bay, I told my husband…”I bet that traveling family I tell you about on instagram is going to move to Bryon Bay!” Your family is so very blessed to have made such a strong connection that the signs were clear! Excited to follow along… best wishes to your growing fam.
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This is really wonderful news. I’ve been wondering for such a long time where your beautiful family would be heading to next, and this is beyond exciting! I would like to wish you all of the best, and I cannot wait to read your adventures further. This is such a beautiful experience, and the fact that you can share this with your family makes it that much more beautiful in my eyes. Lots of love.
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